Monday, October 10, 2011

courage and shame

After my class this morning, I just really did not want to go back to my apartment; I did not want to talk to anyone. I was trying to find a place where no one knew.  Well, it was not possible at all.

I was thinking maybe I could hide in the crowd.  I decided to go to the library. Plugged in my music. Daniel Powter's "Bad Day" was playing along.  It had been a while since the last time.  This time I felt the music and the lyrics more.  My mind was wandering. It took me back to the conversation that I had with Ashley about seeing the counselor.  I was kinda hesitated to do so.  I didn't like reveal my problem to others as I always believed that I could fix my problem on my own.  At least all my past experiences could prove me right.  But, I thought this time I finally put down my pride. 

Walked from the chair in the library, my steps were frightened.  It took me a lot of courage to walk to the counseling center by myself.  I saw some people there. They looked happy.  Why were they there?
 
I did not trust student employee; I was glad the receptionist was not. There was a questionnaire regarding the symbols if the patients had.  "Tempting to commit suicide...feeling sad all the time...", these kinds of wording made me crazy.  Why was I doing that? I knew I had to do it. I was mad at myself why I needed to go there.

When I left, I felt shame. I felt disgusting. I could not believe that I failed myself. 

I do not like the one I am now.

After a couple of hours, I got a call from a counselor.  He asked me if I was threatened as I checked the symbol that he concerned the most.  He decided to put me on a higher priority list.

I guess I will face the things I don't want to deal with soon...










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